This week I am thinking about the treasure trove that is The Book of Common Prayer and other authorized liturgies in the Episcopal tradition. Most of us have no idea just how many wonderful prayers and liturgies there are for all occasions of life. For obvious reasons, the one that is foremost on my mind is on page 439 in The Book of Common Prayer, Thanksgiving for the Birth or Adoption of a Child. This liturgy has quite a history, going back hundreds of years. It has its roots in the Jewish tradition of purification rites for women 40 days after childbirth, but equally emphasizes thanksgiving for the birth of a child. In centuries where mortality rates of women during the birth of a child were very high,  it became particularly important to thank God for safety in coming through it. It also was often the first time much of the community would be introduced to the child, who may or may not have been baptized yet, and thus it became a presentation of the child to God and to the community of God. 



This liturgy has stood for hundreds of years in our prayer book alongside the liturgies of baptism, confirmation, eucharist, burial rites, etc., but my guess is that you have never seen it. Why have we forgotten so much of the prayer book?


There are other wonderful liturgies that have also fallen out of disuse, or have not been adequately been made available to the people. The rite of confession on pg. 447 of the prayer book is one such example. Or the vigil that may be prayed after a death and before a funeral on pg. 465 in the prayer book. Even more unknown are the incredible liturgies included in The Book of Occasional Services, such as 

  • Blessing of a Garden
  • Welcoming New People to a Congregation
  • A Service of Renaming
  • Blessing of a Pregnant Woman
  • Quinceañera
  • Blessing of a Home
  • A Public Service of Healing
  • Anniversary of Marriage
  • And more


And then there are the liturgies included in Enriching Our Worship, such as

  • A Litany for Discontinuing Life-Sustaining Treatment
  • A Rite for Mourning the Loss of a Pregnancy
  • Rites and Prayers for Ending a Pregnancy (be it desired or undesired, repentance or discernment)
  • Prayers for Adoption
  • Litanies for Remembrance, Complaint, or Lament
  • And more


All of these liturgies are available to you, not simply as novel ways to celebrate or recognize a life event, but as ways of shaping our lives in prayer and acknowledging God’s presence in every moment. In fact, there are ways of bringing prayer and liturgies into every aspect of life, even when there is no formally offered liturgy in books of prayer. I remember a few months ago praying in a parishioner’s home with a liturgy I created at the time of death of a pet. Anyone that has lost a pet before knows how painful it can be. Why not invite God into that pain and honor our animal loved one with a liturgy? 


This Sunday my family will make use of the centuries old tradition, Thanksgiving for the Birth of a Child, at the 10:30am mass as LauraAnn and the baby come back to worship. Are there prayers or liturgies that you want to make use of in your life? Let me know how I can support you in that holy work. 


That’s what’s on my mind this week. What’s on yours? I’d love to hear. 


Peace,

Derek

ST PETER'S EPISCOPAL CHURCH BLOG

By Derek Larson • October 17, 2026
Quick Note: We hope you can join us tonight (Saturday, October 17th) at the rectory for our Backyard Open Mic Night gathering! 6:00pm! Pizza will be provided; you bring anything else you like. Now for what I'm thinking about this week: Here it is! A new look to our weekly newsletter. We hope this design is more accessible, engaging, community oriented, and clear in sharing all that's going on in the parish. Thank you so much to our Communications Team who worked hard on this. We highly encourage you to subscribe to our text messages so that you can receive it right on your phone as well! You might notice in the bottom section of the newsletter (called, "All the Rest"), we have three titles: The Table, The Living Room, and the Kitchen. A word about these images. The word parish literally means "to dwell beside". The idea is that a parish is a community of people who share life with one another. Let's take that idea a step further and imagine that St. Peter's is our spiritual family home. Where in the home do people gather? From the earliest centuries of the Church, Christian faith has been lived out in three primary ways. The Benedictines call these three areas Prayer, Study, and Work. A healthy and mature Christian faith includes all three areas. The three areas are also guiding principles in our parish life together. The Table is the place we gather for prayer. We gather each week at the altar for the Eucharist, to share a Divine meal with God and one another. We gather each day for Morning and Evening Prayer, speaking aloud the names of those on our parish prayer list and the needs of the world in the presence of Christ and the holy sacrament. The Table is a metaphor for prayer. The Living Room is the place we gather to grow in our Christian faith. It's where we share stories with one another, get to know each other, and spend time with one another. In Sunday School, Bible Study, and small groups, we gather to learn. At coffee hour, Engage Cafe, and festive dinners we gather to grow closer to one another. And thus the Living Room is a metaphor for fellowship and formation (study). The Kitchen is the place we gather to serve. Where aprons are put on, hands are washed, and sleeves are rolled up as we work together to take care of the community. At St. Peter's we serve both internally (through the work of Ministry Teams, the Vestry, the Choir, the Altar Guild, Lectors, etc.) and externally (through the work of Laundry Love, Friends in the Park, Meals on Wheels baskets, and so much more). The Kitchen is a metaphor for serving (work). To live out our lives as Christians means to live in Christian community in these three areas. In this new weekly newsletter, all of the relevant events, gatherings, and happenings in the parish will be listed in these areas to help us consider how we are engaging in the life of the whole parish. As you walk with others in faith at St. Peter's, I invite you to regularly participate in at least one gathering for prayer, one gathering for formation, and one way to serve. When we participate in the life of the parish in these three areas, not only will we see our parish strengthened, we'll see our relationships flourish and our personal faith lives grow. I hope you like the new design! I can't wait to see some photos that you submit to be featured each week. That's what's on my mind this week. I wonder what's on yours. I'd love to hear. Peace, Derek The Rev. Derek Larson
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